A girlfriend told me, her ex-bf met a new girl two weeks ago, and their story just stoped not long ago, how can he neglect their past love and find another one to replace her love so quickly? Is their love so weak to beat lonliness? She felt angry, she feels upset, she is so frustrated by this unexpected news, all she tried to do is to find way backing into love again, she treasured the lover so much, she will do whatever she can to last their love longer, now she wakes up from reality, from the lied world she used to create and she didnt want to admit its ended. She almost crazily planned to visit him soon and brings a surprise to save their love again, now she realiezed he is just not that into her; What a shock! what a frustration! what a huge pain again! She cried at the other side of the phone, feeling hopless, sad and painful…speechless….woman in love can be very stupid and crazy, the time she is missing him, she will imagine her man will be the same situation, she forgot man is rational animal, they couldnt stand a min loneliness, they even need a woman for simple reason such as physical needs, what he said about love before is all bullshit, so girl shouldnt take that seriously unless they get married.
I havent seen her crying so badly, i feel her deep sorrow, her pain innerside, her love so deeply into that man, but the reality she has to face now, their so called love past away, woman couldnt forget man easily not like man does, they normally take longer time to forget or think that man less, but they will never get wound healed entirely, because woman is emotional animal.
What shall I say to her now? Tears out, wound is bleeding, nothing will be changed by these, let tears flood, let pain felt, let time past, let everything goes with flow, let music helps, let another new man gives her encourgement and strengthen her belief in love again, i wish her good luck and move the pain quickly, its frustrated in keep looking for true love, but she shouldnt give up so easily, experiences may keep woman way from opening heart again, but every ending means another new beginning, if he is not the right man to her, if he is afraid of giving you commitment, he doesnt deserve to receive your love, he has no right to have you aside in life, let memory dies in the past, dont bring it along to future, they are just one chapter of ur life. Close this book and start another new love journey, you may find more interesting things, your fate is not him, so try the other one. You may find your true happiness. Girls, be strong, be yourself, get back your confidence, get back your smile, life should be fulfilled of fun!
Candle lights on, wine waving through the glossy glasses, turn on the music, move away those pain, sorrow, sadness, mood is allowed to be down temparoary not all the time, tomorrow is another day, another new day full of mistries, dont lose hope and you will find back your own life again.
Love is over means its over, it will never come back again, wipe tears, you should thank him to tell you the truth, it wakes u up from dream, now you can drink wine and cheer for the bright future, sunshine will come after rain…..believe it! be strong! be yourself!
